Greetings from the beautiful Ozarks where the birds have my body feeling like we are in the fourth week of March rather than the first week of February. Each morning as I embark on my morning walk, I long for the first few minutes of sunlight as the world begins to wake up and my neighborhood begins to come alive with a flurry of workers preparing to head off to their jobs. Just before they do, though, with just the first few rays of sunlight, the birds begin to sing their songs and Mother Nature begins to radiate with a joy and beauty that humanity has yet to even recreate effectively. It is my favorite part of the day!
Earlier this week, I talked about the mental journey that has accompanied this life change and the importance it played on me getting started and sticking to these changes that have been occurring. I’ve also talked about the next phase of my journey before: healthy, fresh foods! However, I have yet to openly share about another aspect of my journey and it has been just as crucial to my pursuit of health as anything else.
I work as a mental health counselor. My typical clients are teenage boys, but in my private practice, I occasionally get to see marital clients, adults, etc. During my time as a counselor, I was introduced to one of the most interesting people I have ever met. Let me introduce you to Jenni. Jenni works in our office wearing a variety of different hats. For most of the week, she works as a life coach, a kickass Zumba instructor, and a parent aide. For a small part of the week, Jenni works around the counseling office as an office assistant (which is a professional way of saying she does everything)!
Back in August, Jenni began a new adventure in her life. I heard about this adventure and I internally wrote off her choice off with criticism and concern. However, I’m a GOOD friend and didn’t tell her my thoughts. Rather than thinking I am somehow better at making her choices than she is, I chose to ask how I could help her get started. A few weeks later, we were having a class. Jenni and her friend, Amy (remember her from a previous post?), were sharing Jenni’s new adventure with us.
Essential oils have been something I have been toying with over the past year. I’ve used mainly lavender and tea tree oils. Despite having some minor success, I wasn’t experiencing anything to write home about. So, as Jenni and Amy shared their information, I stayed planted on my phone… researching how to prove them wrong. After they got done, I even looked at them and willingly asked their first question. Per my recollection, my question was, “Y’all know this is bullshit, right?” I’m relatively ashamed of my thoughts and opinions and my QUICKNESS to dismiss something before giving it a solid chance. However, I’m completely ANTI-HIPSTER FAD/NONSENSE. To me, that’s all this oils crap sounded like.
Because I hosted the party, I won an oil of my choosing (smart move, Jenni) and I selected an oil that I felt would help with something I was actively experiencing. After the party, I tried the oil with much sarcasm and, honestly, condescension. Twenty minutes later, I was texting Jenni to say that I believed the oil was working. The first time, my wife and I both wondered if the change I was experiencing was a somatic effect. However, it kept working and then it worked for my mother and my sister. My curiosity for exploration was peaked.
Being the logical guy that I am, I evaluated the costs of the products that I wanted to try and compared it to the price of their starter kit – which would make me a member. For the three oils I wanted to try and the diffuser, the total cost was going to be about $170 dollars (I must mention that I wanted some very expensive oils. Most oils tend to cost $20 – $30 dollars). For the kit of 12 oils and the diffuser, the total cost is $160… which do you think became the better value?
Before I could make my final selection, though, I had to address my feelings about MLM schemes. More than once, someone I love has been involved in these stupid things and it has never worked out well. At best, my loved ones fell into a business that required money and promised money that never came. At worst, my loved one purchased tons of product he could not sell and he ended up throwing away over $750 worth of stuff and struggled to pay his bills for several months afterward.
The idea of an MLM company terrified me and I didn’t want to end up in a system where I was ultimately being ripped off so the people that engaged me in the product could profit off me. However, there was something different about Young Living – I already knew that one product does way more than the distributors are even permitted to tell me thanks to regulations. Also, there was only one minimum to keep my membership and maintain the 24% wholesale cost: $50 a year on product. Was it really that easy? A no-risk MLM that’s not designed to gain money off me? No closets filled with useless products I won’t use? Just buying the products that I want for the health goals of me and my family?
After asking tons of questions (thanks, Jenni and Amy), I embarked on my new journey. I did buy the 12 oil and diffuser starter kit (thanks to a special promotional oil). As I obtained my oils and experienced the desired improvements, essential oils did become something to write home about. What I didn’t know before meeting Young Living is that the essential oils I had been buying may not have been 100% unadulterated oil. You see, the only requirement for a bottle to be labeled 100% Pure, Therapeutic Essential Oil is that the bottle must only contain at least 5% of the pure essential oil on the label. That is a DEVASTATINGLY LOW level of quality. Young Living does everything from planting the seeds to processing the oils so there are not various companies trying to profit off a bottle of oils which results in dilution and oils that have been processed from plants grown using toxic methods. Young Living doesn’t use these toxic methods and guarantees a 100% pure and NONTOXIC oil.
I wish I could tell you all the success stories that I am having since I added essential oils to my family’s wellness and weight loss goals. I have taken pictures and utilized Fitbit to track these changes for myself. The success I am having is not somatic… it’s real. I have no shame in the fact that I have joined Young Living. The ONLY product I have ever spent money on is products that I have wanted to try and I have experienced significant success with EVERY SINGLE ONE. The only storage that I have built is the products that I don’t want to run out of because they have become vital to my everyday life.
But wait… I thought the title of this post was that I got scammed. Well, you see, I did. I was the indirect victim of two MLM schemes that were designed to make their money off their distributors without concern about their distributors being able to make any money or not. What I am finding with Young Living is that I got scammed into believing that MLM companies are all scams designed to steal your money by the two schemes that my loved ones got involved with.
Today, I see multi-level marketing happening all around me. Whether I am buying a product at a brick-and-mortar store or online, the amount of money I spend for that product has been increased in cost to help pay for everything that got that product to me: the creator, manufacturer, truck driver, owner of the store, the manager of the store, the lower level employees at the store, etc. With Young Living, I get products I want and the profits go to pay for Jenni’s house payment and Amy’s car payment, etc., rather than some CEO’s vacation home or monthly vacation.
I’m not going to use this blog to try and sell you any oils, but I will be mentioning them from time to time because they are a part of my life and they are a HUGE part of my journey towards wellness as I have used oils to aide in everything from my sleep to my digestion. Have any of you used essential oils as a part of your pursuit of living above the wellness line? Let me know in the comments below.
For now, though, it’s back to taking my life back…
- To avoid an even more unhealthy relationship with the scale, I will only be doing weigh in information during my weekend blog post. Thanks for understanding 🙂
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